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職場英語(yu)雜談 常見(jian)禮儀大忌
所謂(wei)禮儀(yi)，指的(de)(de)不僅僅是答復邀請、或(huo)參加晚宴時的(de)(de)優雅(ya)舉止，它能(neng)反映(ying)出(chu)你(ni)在社交場所及(ji)公眾生(sheng)活中的(de)(de)模(mo)樣。舉個例：一位上了年紀(ji)的(de)(de)老(lao)太(tai)在你(ni)身后(hou)進門(men)，你(ni)卻忘記幫(bang)她扶(fu)著門(men)……那(nei)么(me)，任何目睹了這一幕的(de)(de)旁觀者會立(li)馬對你(ni)的(de)(de)印象大打折扣(kou)。
In most situations, your image and appearance isn't just part of what defines you;it's the only thing that defines you. People who don't know anything about you are going to fill in the blanks with the only information they have, which is how they see you behave. Regardless of how you think of yourself, one awful social habit can easily become the thing that comes to identify you: Anyone who sees you chewing your food like a cow and acting belligerent toward your waitress is going to remember that stuff far before your job title or sophisticated wit。
在絕大多數時(shi)候，你(ni)(ni)的外(wai)表和形象往(wang)往(wang)代表了一切。那些(xie)不熟(shu)知(zhi)你(ni)(ni)的人，只(zhi)能夠通過對你(ni)(ni)舉(ju)止的觀察(cha)，來(lai)填(tian)補(bu)對你(ni)(ni)形象的空白。無(wu)論你(ni)(ni)是否(fou)自視甚(shen)高，只(zhi)要有(you)一點兒禮(li)儀上的錯誤就能導致你(ni)(ni)被全盤否(fou)定(ding)。比(bi)(bi)如，吃飯的'時(shi)候狼吞(tun)虎(hu)咽、或(huo)對待服務生粗暴無(wu)禮(li)，這些(xie)都會比(bi)(bi)你(ni)(ni)是否(fou)身居高位、是否(fou)處(chu)事(shi)圓滑技(ji)巧高超更讓人印(yin)象深刻。
No.1Eating with your mouth open
第一條：吃(chi)飯時(shi)張嘴咀嚼
Eating like an animal is simply one of the worst social mistakes you can make. It graduates from merely a bad habit that reflects poorly on you to something that actively disgusts other nearby people trying to enjoy their food. Women in particular find this awful, and it's one of the most common stereotypes of a hopeless, classless guy. This applies to more than just eating for that matter: The term "mouth-breather" is not exactly synonymous with refinement and social graces, so take your cues from that and ditch this habit as soon as humanly possible。
狼吞虎咽是(shi)最大的社交禁忌。它可能(neng)只是(shi)你身上一個小(xiao)小(xiao)的毛病，但卻有可能(neng)極大地影響(xiang)(xiang)到周圍人(ren)的食欲和心情，尤其是(shi)女人(ren)。難看(kan)的吃相不(bu)僅(jin)僅(jin)影響(xiang)(xiang)別人(ren)吃飯，還會(hui)讓人(ren)覺得你是(shi)個沒有前途、地位(wei)低下的家伙，而(er)這(zhe)個問題(ti)則嚴重得多(duo)。“用嘴喘氣者(美國俚(li)語：笨蛋(dan))”可不(bu)是(shi)優雅(ya)、有風度的同義詞，正相反。因此，記住以上這(zhe)些建議吧(ba)，有則改之，無則加勉!
No.2Grooming in public
第二(er)條：在公共場合(he)拾掇(duo)自己(ji)
Public groominginfringes on our shared social contact; whether you think anyone's looking at you or not, it's simply not OK. Virtually anything that you'd normally go into a restroom to do should be confined to one, including cleaning your ears, clipping your fingernails and anything else related to personal hygiene. An old-school take on this would essentially be to keep your hands away from your face entirely when you're in public, but how about this: Don't do anything you wouldn't proudly and unconcernedly do in front of an attractive woman。
這條絕(jue)對(dui)違背(bei)了社(she)交禮儀(yi)。不(bu)(bu)(bu)管你有沒有覺得(de)別人在(zai)看(kan)你，公共場(chang)合這樣(yang)做(zuo)(zuo)就是不(bu)(bu)(bu)、可、以(yi)!想拾掇自己很簡單啊(a)，去洗(xi)手(shou)間!無論是挖耳朵、剪指甲以(yi)及其他任何(he)和個人衛生有關的事，都不(bu)(bu)(bu)要在(zai)公眾場(chang)合做(zuo)(zuo)。以(yi)前的禮儀(yi)甚(shen)至要求在(zai)公共場(chang)合中不(bu)(bu)(bu)得(de)用手(shou)去碰(peng)臉。不(bu)(bu)(bu)如記(ji)住這一點：任何(he)你覺得(de)在(zai)面對(dui)一位美麗的女(nv)士時不(bu)(bu)(bu)能做(zuo)(zuo)的事，就同樣(yang)也別在(zai)公眾場(chang)合做(zuo)(zuo)。
No.3Being a gy***ob
第(di)三條：健身房混(hun)球
Gym etiquette is pretty simple, but that doesn't prevent every gym from suffering its share of inconsiderate gy***obs. These are the guys who monopolize equipment even if they don't appear to be doing much of anything with it, who drop free weights or duffel bags in heavily-trafficked areas where they're likely to kill somebody,and who can't understand (or don't care) that leaving sweat on a bench or machine is gross and inexcusable. One overarching rule will prevent most gy***ovenliness: Don't act like you're the most important person in the world. Act like you share this place with a bunch of people who are paying money to use it-- because, well, you do。
健(jian)(jian)身房(fang)本來(lai)很(hen)簡(jian)(jian)單，沒什么繁(fan)雜(za)的(de)禮儀。但總(zong)有那(nei)么些極品困擾著大大小(xiao)(xiao)小(xiao)(xiao)每個健(jian)(jian)身房(fang)。他們就是健(jian)(jian)身房(fang)混球們，比如那(nei)些有事(shi)沒事(shi)就喜(xi)歡(huan)霸占著器械的(de)人(ren);比如那(nei)些把沙袋(dai)和舉重(zhong)器械隨意(yi)亂(luan)扔、一(yi)失手就會(hui)砸(za)到別人(ren)的(de)人(ren);而那(nei)些在(zai)座椅或器械上(shang)四處留(liu)下汗漬的(de)人(ren)真是惡心透了，簡(jian)(jian)直(zhi)無法原(yuan)諒(liang)!想不被人(ren)討厭很(hen)簡(jian)(jian)單，記住(zhu)：別老把自(zi)己當宇(yu)宙中(zhong)心!要把健(jian)(jian)身房(fang)當做一(yi)個人(ren)人(ren)花了錢來(lai)相互(hu)分享運動(dong)資源的(de)地方——事(shi)實上(shang)，也的(de)確是這樣(yang)，不對(dui)嗎?
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